I’m in a 4/3 and over the course of the last two years have had no issues.

Of course, things can't be that easy.

In either instance, you were able to use the cash out for something and if you had left the interest rate alone, over time you would come out ahead (unless of course he put you into an interest only loan or something crazy).You're right that refinancing so many times can eat up your principal and since you were the one that signed the papers, it is your fault, but I stand by the assertion that no one got rich on one point.Stephanie 

Of course you know that you can get another job to save money, but my guess is if you get another job-the ex can take you back to court and take some of that too which defeats the purpose. 

Of course, this question is best posed to an attorney. 

A recent article by BP: "Top 5 Alternative Investments for Real Estate Investors in 2024," which was sponsored by "atminvestors.com," listed the #1 Passive Investment opportunity as ATM investing (of course).

This year was a train wreck.

They are also filled with newbies that just paid $10K for a course and the Days Inn from someone that doesn't, themselves, really know real estate...otherwise they wouldn't be teaching it, they would be doing it.

If you never hit the same course twice there's no way to tell if you've gotten worse/stayed the same, right?

And of course then CA will get its share :)