The lender clearly didn't communicate with you or set proper expectations, which is why it seems the expectations you have are inaccurate.Most lenders will NOT allow you to order your own appraisal/BPO. 

I own one facility and it has been quite a challenge so far.

It definitely has fulfilled all of my expectations and more...and what I love most about it is the fact that it is completely user friendly -- it's a very intuitive program with a vast array of features.

However, I typically like to make a distinction between my parents assets and my own, simply because doing so provides me more satisfaction when I succeed.

Firstly, do you manage your own property or do manage mix of your own plus clients' property?

I also invest in other assets such as stocks, and private companies as well. for RE agents I see absolutely no conflict.. its their job.. not every agent starting out can afford to buy a rental.. and note very agent even wants to own a rental ( like me) I only like to deal in land when I sold RE to the public .

Expect to put no money in your own pocket for a couple years.  

If you're local you can probably do fine on your own.

You can borrow  against a 401k or another property you own for example, but that would a secured loan.

How can I strike a deal where they can still receive some income from the property, but I can purchase the home and make my share and eventually (1-2 years away) own the home and eventually get full profit from this 8-unit property.