If his profile is correct, then I have been commenting and connecting on BiggerPockets with investors longer than he has been investing in real estate.  

I'd love to connect!

That would be my #1 suggestion - get connected on Facebook. 

I would connect with an experienced loan broker who can help evaluate these options for you.

If you decide to buy in the area get in touch with me, and I may be able to give you some connections up there. 

Where I’m Focusing: Ohio (Dayton and Cincinnati) — I already have trusted partners for renovation and construction.Investment Strategies: I’m interested in fix-and-flip and BRRRR.Open to Networking: Real estate agents, investors, contractors, and anyone passionate about real estate.My Goal: To learn from experienced investors, share ideas, and build a scalable real estate business.Looking forward to connecting and learning from this great community! 

You have VA loan eligibility, you have (I assume) a service-connected disability check every month which you would use as your income.

@Edwin AlvarezI recommend finding local meetups to attend. https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/521I have found all of my best connections at local meetups.

Step 1: Get preapproved for an FHA loan for the purchase price you are looking for.Step 2: Connect with builders until you find a few that will finance the construction of your home. 

Then, start building your connection with local agents, contractors and property managers.2.