Specifically the Davis Park area!

A specialized commercial broker in a specific niche or any commercial broker?

There are pros/cons to the bay area vs out of state and everyone's situation is different to reach their goals within their own timeline. 

Just to name a few: Borrower's Experience FICO Loan Amount Loan Type being sought: Perm (30 yr ams), Bridge (12-36mo I/O), Rehab (12-36mo I/O), Ground Up (12-60mo I/O) Property Type (1-4 unit, 5+ MF, Warehouse/industrial, Hospitality etc)If you have a specific deal in mind, then you can have a lender (or broker) look at it and give you a better idea.

A couple of tips:Ask specific questions: The more specific your questions (like, “How do you evaluate a potential deal?”

I'm in the same situation as OP. 

This will be area specific. 

If you are looking for Detroit-specific help, @Drew Sygit would be a good resource.

If it's not feasible due to circumstances I suppose I'll have to adjust my situation (find weekend job, move back to NJ with parents, move to a different state with, etc.)All responses are appreciated, and I am absolutely open to chatting on the phone by the way.My view on house hacking is it can be a great tool to buy a house you could not  otherwise afford, but it shouldn’t be a goal in it of itself if that makes sense and that’s not to discourage you from investing just there are alternatives such as the stock market. so I’d start by asking where you want to live, do you want to own a single family home or does it make more sense to rent in a more interesting neighborhood like Arlington, Alexandria, that’s gonna be a personal choice, Will your monthly payment actually be less than renting/how many people do you need to get in the house to afford that?

Adding details and specifics can help get to the answer or direction you're looking for.