@Thomas Enright ..They accepted an offer on a triplexe, short sale.. it was the beginning of November and I finally closed the end of June.. very aggravating definitely worth the wait...lol

If you told them you (or your representatives) will be visiting the site ~1 per week for both diligence as well as coordinating improvements post-sale it might have mitigated some aggravation.

I have been working with the same realtor for about 6 months now and i am beginning to get a little aggravated.

If during the inspection/re-negotiation period you feel the potential buyer is asking to much and they are aggravating you in the negotiations and nickel and diming you just reach out and I would be interested purchasing it "As Is".

Aggravating policy, IMO.

that's sucks  its the greatest marketing tool I have seen in years.when I was doing land sales.. my partner and I would go up in a 172 .. with him handing out the window taking shots while I flew .he kept telling me to bank harder and I am like Dude I don't want to get in an aggravated stall.. sO with me at the controls he just had to get the shots on my terms.  

I know it is aggravating, but I would find a way to make it happen. 

Otherwise the reward just isn't worth the aggravation.  

Just go find the sellers and properties that match that criteria and save yourself all the aggravation.

Nonetheless, having the game suddenly changed significantly 9 years into a loan is quite aggravating.