Here's my advice to you, get your license and do business honestly, with integrity, it is never the wrong thing to do. 

I am an emergency medicine resident in Ohio. my financial situation is as follows:Debts:My student loans: 70,000 @5.6%, 200,000My wife's student loans: 110000@ 7%Mortgage 120,000 @ 3.5%IncomeMy income: 55,000Wife's income: 60,000I also have about 7000 in savings and 15,000 in stocks/ETFs*I have 2 more years of residency and should then have a salary around 350 to 400,000.

And if your intent was never to do that, then you need a serious integrity check and it could come back to haunt you.

Would love your referrals on folks you worked with and have been integral, valuable members of your team since :)- A lawyer (LLC, Lease review)- Lender (Would like to contrast with our current lender offering)- Property mgmt company (received good word on GDAA, would love your feedback / referral to additional companies). 

That would be theft.You will be much better off finding an attorney or advisory firm that can integrate the LLC with the overall IRA setup & administrative services and meaningful consultations related to maintaining compliance with IRS rules. 

I'd  make sure her bills were paid, went grocery shopping for her, and made sure her medicine was sorted out for her to take.  

That does not have integrity and you should  not attempt it.If you purchased that property and used it for a year as a rental and then changed your intent that's a different story. 

We are vertically integrated and focus on highest/best value add.

We've gotten excellent deals from sellers when our integrity and intentions are made clear.

Not the cheapest but am all about being trustworthy and having integrity.