So my thought is to provide a summary to sellers of the 3 options on the front end which explain the pros/cons with each and ultimately provide them with an estimate of their proceeds based on the option they select. 

Our attorney explained the "DOS clause" as a tool lenders can, at their option, exercise in the event a transfer has occurred. 

I was interviewed by Builder Magazine years ago explaining the reasons.  

@Wayne BrooksSorry for my inexperience - but can you explain to me what that means?

Hey Norine, I think @Andrew Steffens did a pretty good job explaining it.

So, I have proof that I asked two ways three different times to show a judge, if needed.I did have a tenant call and ask for the check and accounting once about two months after he left and I explained the process again. 

I would probably approach your tenant with this information and say, "If that is the way you want to play it, so be it... but be aware you are really screwing yourself if you go that way" and explain that situation to him.  

, I explain, I want to earn your trust for deals I have studied and that I am a bigger pockets PRO member.I can not always get on as I wish as I work.

I actually have a “resource” on my BP business page explaining the basics of these.

He explains how critically important it is to do hard work that flows - there is no resistance, instead you are fully inspired and in alignment with who you are and where you are going.