It boils down to an attitude, a state of mind, emotion and a person of action.It takes courage, creativity and consistency to walk up to someone's front door and knock!

I find this to be the best route because I am not emotionally tied to the deal and rather can think through the best opportunities...I like OPM.Derek

The emotion of fear is intended to warn us of danger and to act as a cautionary tool.

Don't get emotional.

I will not let emotions get involved in the end, however, is there a way to make this work out for all.

Sometimes that makes a personal connection that's emotional, which always trumps rational.

Be patient and make sure to analyze all deals before making any decisions - don't get emotional - doing so can lead to bad decisions.Again, welcome to the site and we'll see you around.

Basically I run down all of the local research for your property leads.Property Analysis (or Property Consultation) ServiceThe service includes:-An inspection of the subject and surrounding neighborhood-Exterior and interior pictures of the subject and pictures of surronding neighborhood-A detailed report containing the following information: **All the property details and tax information **Title Search **List of local comparables and an estimate of market value **A detailed list of needed repairs **Suggestions for upgrades worth considering **Suggestions for what the property will be best used for (Fix/Flip, Rental, Lease Option) **A list of financing options and costs of each **Rental cashflow analysis (if needed)Cost of service is $100 per houseTurnaround time is 24 to 48 hours.Not trying to play on anyone's emotions, just trying to offer a helpping hand for anyone who wants or needs it.

There are of course other important things to look out for, but I think the most important thing is to see if you're actually ready.There is a HUGE emotional aspect to investing that most people forget about when they think it is time to start investing.

You sound way too emotional and involved in they misery.