Consulting a CPA is a must to navigate these nuances.Double-check these details with your lender and CPA to avoid surprises and keep scaling smoothly.

You don't need to include the specific details on where the security deposit is held in the lease.

They came across too pushy and didn’t get enough detail and when you’re new to something and about to put an abundant amount of money somewhere, you want to feel safe and like you have all the information and I just didn’t with his team.

I see a lot where newbies are asking for help but as newbies, it feels like they are missing a lot details.

However a more experienced person might now better all the details 

Attention to detail is important in this business.

Property details: 3 bed 2 bath both sides with attached garages, aluminum siding, copper plumbing, 1972 construction, separately metered, all electric water heater, range, dryer, public water and public sewer on a slab foundation in a great school district right next to brand new construction everywhere.

Buying a home is the bay area retirement planYes, there are a lot details and differences for everyone's particular situation.

Can you send me the details? 

HOWEVER, I recommend reading Stuart's advice above very carefully and perhaps soliciting his feedback on the deal in more detail before putting too much more time into it.