Who designed the home?

R-2 is typically designated for a residential zoning, likely higher density / multi-family. 

Another business partner of mine is a marketing pro who helps investors anticipate which properties will book out well and which ones might struggle, provides some creative design tips too, if you're into STRs at all. 

DSCR is designed for this situation.

They did, 4 days later in person, and told us that we were in violation; that short term rentals (less than 7 days) were not an allowable use for our zoning designation, CRO (commercial, residential, office) and that we would be receiving a certified letter to cease and desist.

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Maybe women as a whole arent interested in these jobs or flipping houses > On my jobs the the women work as designers for the hard surface company.. we have a few women I see working for the sheet rock company doing the fine detial mudding and patch work and well when I was in the logging business one of my loggers his sister ran the log loader and was very good swinging those logs on to the truck..

-Is this in need of some kind of professional designation or compliance with some kind of law or regulation?

That is how I got started.I also encourage you to listen to the Thanks for Visiting podcast because they are in your city.I hired an online interior designer and gave a per-square-foot budget.

All security deposits are held in the operating account but our accounting system keeps careful track of security deposits and they show up as a liability on our balance sheet.I've not heard of management software designed to function in a specific state, so presume any would work there.