They're busy, they're stressed, they're under pressure. 

If you’re open to it, I’d be thrilled to buy you a coffee and hear your story.Whether you specialize in residential, commercial, wholesaling, or anything in between, your insights would mean a lot to me as I navigate this journey.Please feel free to reply here or shoot me a message if you’re interested.

Seems odd as this would be a business expense for my business.  

Yours appears to be a business-purpose (investment) loan.

It is important to remember you own real estate in the Poconos and you are choosing to operate a STR business.

I second @Erik Estrada Chase offers great programs for business, multifamily, and conventional loans for commercial properties.

. :) Wishing you the best in your business. 

I've been toying with the idea of adding an ISA to my sales business.

You have every right to be outraged at the offending party and that's the tenant.Stay focused on what matters and that is getting back in business. 

It's easy to bite off more than you can chew in this business and that's especially not a good idea for your first deal.