Accountants can give good advice on how to do the expenses.If you want anonymity, you can set up the attorney as initial trustee to switch when assets are transferred and the filings are done. 

I though WY was the better one in the West coast area for anonymity?

If you are going for anonymity, go with the latter.

@Kumar GauravI've only seriously heard of land trusts used for anonymity. 

Never rely on anonymous strangers you met on the web to find your money.

I want to maintain some separation and anonymity from anyone who browses our homes online or comes to a showing due to my full time job (higher liability, lots of contact with the public).

Honestly, I have heard it argued every which way and even had lawyers suggest one or the other, the someone throws in the need for a trust to further anonymity.  

Asset protection or anonymity isn't much of a concern for us on this.2) Would distributions need to go into a LLC owned bank account?

LLC’s provide asset protection along with some anonymity.

Since a LLC is a State entity, it needs to be registered so it has legal standing in case you need to go court, mainlyAside from asset protection, if you want anonymity you’d create a “top level” LLC in a state like WY or DE, then that LLC is the member for the State specific LLC.