If you can help me or even point me in the right direction please inbox me Thanks!

I think I might be able to at least help point you in the right direction. 

I'll send you a direct message

(even if you do not have any direct employees, you may be dealing with subs)4.

My question in this post is NOT whether or not one will happen, but rather about what those of us who began our REI journey AFTER the crash can learn from those who experienced it firsthand.So my question is directed to those in the BP community who were involved in real estate during the dark days of 2007-2009.  

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No, with truly self-directed Solo 401k plan you can contribute first $18,500 (plus $6,000 catch up if you are over 50 years of age) up to 100% of your self-employment compensation, then on top of that you can do additional 20% of your net SE income (25% if you are incorporated) for combined maximum of $55,000 ($61,000 for those over 50).

There is a plethora of lenders one can do a deal with, but I'm looking for an asset based lender who is fast, reliable and has excellent customer service. 

I've been reading posts and listening to the podcast for a while now so im expecting some well wishes and folks willing to steer me in the right direction.

Outline your expectation very clearly and then if he is not following your directions you can consider changing.