When you run numbers in a BP calculator you can see quickly that equity gains DWARF cash flow.

Just be mindful that you can't 1031 a personal residence but it might be eligible for capital gain exclusion from section 121.

Wait for her to bring it up.Don’t focus only on sacrifices and future payoffs.Highlight near-term benefits, not just “someday we’ll be rich.”Don’t force or bribe her to attend meetups.Invite her but dont push itDon’t try to teach them to analyze deals.Focus on what excites themFYI I had to deploy before my wife got on board.

For example, you could create a weighted structure where a percentage of profits is based on cash contributions, and another portion compensates for rehab or management efforts.Rent Payments and Tax-Free Profits:If you structure it as an owner-occupied property, the rent you pay could be shared proportionally, but tax-free gains on resale may only apply to your share, as you’d be the owner-occupant.

Reno Scenerio Off Market Purchase Price - $185k ARV = $315-335kReno - $55-65kHolding - $10kClosing both ends - $25k= $335 , $315-$285 =$30-50k gain  As-IS Scenario Purchase - $185kSale Price on MLS :$225- $235kClosing both ends - $20kHolding - $4k= $235 - $209 =$16-$26k gainIn both scenerios I’ll be 1031ing it into a new investment.

Benefit of waiting is lower mortgage payments and lower debt.

How can assets be moved into a LP's name without triggering capitol gains? 

So there might not be enough gain to need a 1031 exchange.If there is enough gain to justify the 1031 exchange then simply treat your replacement property as you would any other investment like @Daniel Osman said. 

As both an investor and a mortgage broker who has personally used both options, I can say there are benefits to each.It ultimately comes down to comparing the two side by side based on your specific situation.

Or what are other tips to start gaining traction from the beginning?