This is an impressive thread! Debbie, I'm sorry you lost your money.
I went to one of the Gurus as well and I "invested" the same amount as you did. I also increased my credit limit and took out new credit cards too. However, I look at it this way, I had zero knowledge of the real estate market as an investor before I did the program. What some of the people responding to your initial thread fail to realize is that we are all not the same. I wanted to find an alternative way to earn some cash flow but had no clue where to turn to. My wife and I had no experience in this field and knew no one who was actually doing this. We were ripe for the picking, enter the Guru's program.
Was it expensive? Yes. Would I have been able to use the money to flip/buy/renovate a house? Yes. Did I feel ripped off afterwards? YES! Could I have bought a new truck or Harley with the money instead? YES!!!!
I would say that I purchased my Real Estate Investment Master's Degree with my experience. I did not ask for my money back because I signed a contract and just like many in here have said, regardless of what they said, it was my responsibility to go through it. Lesson learned.
On a positive note I found biggerpockets because of it. I have increased my real estate investing knowledge more through biggerpockets than I did with the program I bought at least a hundred fold. I have also begun my REI career and I'm happy that I'm moving forward.
I did learn one thing. I CAN DO THIS. Good luck to you!