Good points, all.
I am contributing to a 401K, as is my wife, to the tune of about 40K combined. I don't think it would be wise to pull that out to invest in RE, do you?
Also, he didn't come out & say he would "educate" me b/c he wants to "give back", those were just my words. It's much like on this forum, he's willing to help me out. I've heard it mentioned here that one should join a local rei club & become friends w/ someone who's successful. I see this as much the same thing, only I didn't meet him at a local rei club. Are ALL successful investors active in local rei clubs? Couldn't some of them just have their contacts (buyers, bankers, lawyers, etc) already in place, & have no desire or need to join a club or go to meetings?
Would you suggest I talk to my friends & relatives & try to borrow money to invest? I could see this as ruining friendships, so I'm reluctant to do that. Besides, people's circle of influence are generally in the same income/lifestyle category. If I don't have a substantial savings account, I don't expect my circle of friends to have one, either. My folks I'm sure have money, but they're 75 & enjoying their retirement. There's no way I'd want to risk any of their money they worked so hard to accumulate. I'm young enough to bounce back from a financial setback.
That being said, I will definitely be on the alert to any purchase not being a safe deal. It will be a while before I'm in the position to buy, & I will definitely take your advice on learning the 70% rule & 50% rule before making any purchases. I'll probably run the numbers by you to see if they look right.
One thing he said is that he likes to buy rentals near Delta College here in Stockton. He also likes to rent to young nursing students, the younger the better, for several reasons: 1) The younger they are, the more likely they are to have mom & dad back their finances. 2) Nursing students aren't there to play football, cheerlead, or party. They're more serious about their education. 3) You get a multi-year renter. He has many of them sign a 3-yr contract. He said it's easy to get renters, & it's easy to get GOOD renters.
I'll ask him next time we meet to explain to me how this works w/ the credit cards, & run it by you for your input.
And I am working on improving my own financial house (part of the reason I want to get into real estate investing). I will soon be picking up the book "The Total Money Makeover" by Dave Ramsey. I also have a long list of re books on my wish list, thanks to Jeff Fairchild and others on this forum, that I will be reading over the next year.
I appreciate all your feedback, especially the skepticism, so I can be on guard while I'm getting to know this guy better, & know what I should ask about when talking w/ him.
Any other suggestions?