My gosh jake... sounds to me like you're doing this ss yourself. I almost wonder if i should have been doing the same. i'm in the same situation you are, but my agent is handling everything. Much respect on your ability to dog these bastards into working with you.
I have been battling with countrywide and wells fargo. I have great credit, no default and because of that country wants me to take a 15k promisory note. They told me that because my credit score is so hi, I must not be in that bad of shape, so they want some extra to do the deal. i tried to call there bluff (they did this to a friend of mine, but he got out of it), but they came back and said they'd rather foreclose... i was kinda shocked they'd rather go throught he expense of foreclosure than take a deal that they really won't loose much money on at all. The whole thing feels criminal to me. The fact that they're getting my tax dollars for bailout and yet they want way more from me just makes me want to never owe on a mortgage again..
I've heard the your credit score will loose about 150 from the ss, but the other numbers i've seen here have been more encouraging. good luck bro lets keep in touch!! Lee