Quote from @Erika Andersen:
Update! Finding an RE buyer agent to work at an hourly or fixed rate was hard - although contrary to what a few folks mentioned here, those options are listed on the standardized Colorado contract. In the interim, I found a house, negotiated 2.5% off the listing price, and we're under contract! I attended the first open house and requested a showing by the seller agent with my husband present.
Here's why I think my process worked:
1. Denver is a buyer's market - houses sit for a bit (one month plus). Two years ago, this approach would not have been an option.
2. Narrow focus - I know the zip codes I wanted to purchase well. I wanted to be within a less than 20-minute radius of my mom. Also, hyperfocus helps me find a home with the right conditions - a stable but increasing-value neighborhood. An older house that had already been flipped (2022) -- all new appliances, remodeling, good floor plan. The exterior is a bit sad - which worked to my benefit. It didn't yell "cute" in the Zillow picture, but improving curb appeal won't be a huge investment. Plus, the buyer needed to get rid of the house quickly as she was getting married and moving - her list price was 5K over what she had paid in 2022, and she had made improvements. I knew she wouldn't want to come down too much --- so she got the same net, and I saved 2.5%. I'm happy - the floor plan is exactly what I was looking for - tri-level 4/4- which is hard to find in the price range I wanted. House went on the market 1/17- we were under contract @ day 14.
3. Not a rookie - While I have never purchased a home without an agent, I have purchased two homes in the last fifteen years in Denver and, at some point, managed both with some form of rental income, plus helping my mom manage the independent basement apartment in her home. I also put my good student skills to use in understanding comps, etc. Fortunately, those skills can be generalized from one profession to another.
4. Luck - Colorado contracts are straightforward.
5. Support - I hired an RE attorney @ $350 hourly. I also filled out the contract to minimize the fee, and we reviewed it together. Also, my husband has experience with contracts and helped with researching information I found difficult. Overall, the process was easier than I had anticipated.
6. Privilege - We don't have contingencies. We are keeping our current house as a rental. I have a flexible schedule and was able to put in the time.
My takeaway: - I would definitely hire an RE agent as a seller. However, the next time I buy a house, if it's a buyer's market and I know the area I want to purchase well, I'll repeat this process if it's in a state with straightforward contracts. I learned a lot, feel more confident and am pleased with the outcome.
Here's what rubs me about this situation: the market has gone down since 2022. So why would you pay what they paid then? Like you said, it was a strong seller's market then with steep appreciation, multiple offers, way over-asking price offers, escalating clauses, appraisal gap coverage, buyers waiving all contingencies, etc. It was crazy. Most people who bought in 2022 overpaid. The tables have turned and it's a buyers market now with values flat or declining, much longer days on market, price drops, listings expiring, very rare to see full price offers on new listings, etc.
So why would you pay even close to what they paid at the peak of the market in 2022? Even with having made improvements, anyone selling now who purchased in 2022 should be expecting a loss. You basically made a full price offer when you didn't need to. That makes no sense. Never pay full price in a buyer's market!
Let's compare this to a deal we did last week: Seller had purchased in 2022 and listed the property for around 5% more than they had paid in 2022 (there are a lot of highly unrealistic/hopeful sellers like this currently who overpaid in 2022 and need to sell). They had no other offers so we offered 30% under ask. They countered and we met them in the middle at 15% under, and then negotiated an additional $15k off during inspection, so total discount was around $150k off list price/ what they paid in 2022. Seller had also made $100k in improvements btw. We also got them to have it professionally cleaned, ducts cleaned, they threw in some furniture for free, paid a lot of the closing costs that buyer usually pays, paid most recent mill levy instead of prior years taxes, paid my 2.8% commission, etc. because it is a buyers market and that's what you can negotiate in a buyer's market. This is a more typical deal for the current market, and what yours could have looked like if you had someone who knows what they are doing representing you.
This is typical of what I see when buyers or sellers "go it alone": the unrepresented side gets the short end of the stick every time. They often think they're getting a good deal and tell their friends they got a good deal, when they really left money on the table unknowingly. I've seen buyers leave $500k on the table and tell their friends they got a good deal by not having an agent involved. Filling out the contract etc. is not that difficult but without being active in the market every day and having expertise that comes from doing deals all the time, beginner mistakes like this are going to be made and money is going to be left on the table every time. It's no different than anything else that people try to DIY: it can be done but beginner's mistakes will be made, the end product usually isn't as good as a professional would have done, and it usually takes longer and costs more.
Frankly, this seller is really lucky you came along and were willing to overpay by 10-20% in order to "save" 2.5%. If it had been my client buying this property, they would have paid a lot less even with the full commission factored in.
It seems like the property works for you at the list price and you're fine with what you're paying, so that's great. But don't kid yourself by thinking you saved any money here by representing yourself when you are overpaying compared to what most buyers are currently paying.
Savvy buyer's agents look at stats like sold price to list price ratio trends and watch specific properties to see what they sold for compared to what they were listed for to really understand the market and make offers accordingly. You clearly misread the market here and could have done a lot better IMO. Good learning experience for you, but better to learn by working with a good agent and saving money until you have done at least 10-15 deals, rather than learning by making mistakes and leaving money on the table IMHO.