@JScott thank you for the brutal honesty. Takes that to get some people straight..In all fairness, I believed him just to be "Someone In Construction" Before I sat down and had a conversation about REI with him one day. Which happened to be after I had spent all that money trying to educate myself.
@MichaelD, Thank you for your feedback as well. I would like to think I add a lot to the project. Sorry I didn't specify before but I have marketing in place that has been driving in a good amount of non-listed leads for me. The problem is the finances to act upon these leads.
@Bill Thank you for the personal insight. My relationship with him has never been very strong, but he respects any man trying to make something of himself, and he loves to see me venturing into something he has devoted to for quite some time.
After bringing certain things to light it sounds like I was having a problem swallowing my ego. I suppose I should have him on my side until I learn the ropes my self. He has no problem helping me when needed but he does run a full time business and is quite busy, so I still need to find some of these things out for myself.
That being said, the difference between me and my stepfather is that he has plenty of out of pocket funds for his own deals and has not needed unconventional financing for over 20 years. So trusting him as my mentor through the rehab should be a great thing for me but that does not get me funding for the deal.
so my end question is; Is there a proven way as a first time rehabber/investor to get your foot through the door with financiers? I'm sorry if i sound confusing to some of you seasoned investors. All in all, I am looking for a way to dive in head first and get something going but I can not do so without the proper financial backing. Even if I have the right people to overlook my project.
Thank you to everyone for the feedback. You really are helping. Just shows how great of a resource BP truly is.