Hey Matt,
So for starters Hard Money doesn't do Owner Occupied. If you took out Hard Money and did not Owner Occupy you could do the repairs and then once you refinance to conventional do the refinance as an owner occupied and then move in.
Another option albeit one I've seen be quite the pain of a process is the FHA 203k. With Credit at 580 or better the down payment will be 3.5%. This is a Owner Occupied loan so that will fit your situation however all repairs and renovations must be completed by a contractor and not the Owner. If you go this route I would suggest finding a lender who does these types of loans frequently as this a specialized loan and you do not want to be going through this process with someone who is new to this loan type. Also, this will work if both homes are on a single parcel not a parcel for each home as the second parcel wouldn't be considered Owner Occupied but an investment.
Best of Luck!