Hi Dion. I understand this thread has had mixed opinions and cautionary ideas/tones. It's fine, I welcome it, and if it leads to some new insight or helps answer some lingering questions, then it's constructive. No hard feelings.
The first thread this summer posed enough questions for me to get some clarification from my RE attorney. Done.
The most recent comments have convinced me that I need to find a Servicer pronto. Doing some research on that end and finding one ASAP is now at the top of my list. Even if I don't agree with all of the reasons or opinions of fellow members as to why I should get a Servicer or why some regulation may or may not be applicable to my situation, as long as the resulting action of the thread (turnover the servicing to licensed servicer) is a positive one, then it's beneficial.
As far as interfering with the Borrower and nagging him to sell his home, thus far we've discussed the idea a couple of times as one possible solution.. I appreciate the cautionary advice re: the "slippery slope", and I'll be cognizant of any interaction going forward with respect to that topic.
Just FYI, and not trying to be snarky, but below is from one of your posts from August earlier in this thread.
It seems selling the real property is his most viable solution. I would set up a make sense plan with him on this matter. Get the property cleaned up and listed. Let's continue the assumption he will not be paying property taxes in Jan 2014. That is OK if he sells the property, the taxes will net out. So you don't have to worry about those right this moment either. Between now and sale, you still want to address his debt service with you. Perhaps look at forbearing him until sale, so you can get some type of cash flow from him. This is really to just put the idea of 'the sale will cure it all' in check. Nobody knows how long it will take for sale and he should still try and make some type of payment to you, even if small.
You may want to stay involved with the listing price number decision as well. Desperate folks may try and list too high, which we all know is not good. You can not control what the number is, but commentary around reality will help move things forward.
I think the conclusion with some of the new details are pretty straight forward. He can not afford this obligation. I wouldn't move into a foreclosure stance or threaten foreclosure, if he is reasonable he will see the same thing you see. So you can disposition this loan without adding foreclosure legal fees and making it hostile, provided he complies.
So, I'm confused, because today you post the following:
Dion, back in August you mention: "You want to stay involved", "Setup a make sense place", "Get the property cleaned up and listed", "Commentary around reality will help move things forward"... Is this not advising? Is this not interfering?
Then there's Bill on 12/31 who says "Keep a low profile and get him to sell it".
We're all three in agreement that the most favorable option is for the Borrower to sell the home. Question is what my role can/should be in that process?