There are 2 scenarios here. Don't listen to others who say yes no, because everyone considers from their perception.
1) Are you going to kick yourself later if you don't end up giving it a shot?
2) Does it pencil out? Change your housing value to pre-tax since you would have to pay elsewhere. Considering 25% tax bracket, the sum of this + salary = $73,200. So the spread is $26,800. So with daycare you will wipe that out. And then reduce it further $56,400 for housing. After year one, you get some of that housing cost back in equity. But in year two and beyond, full housing cost. I've known people go work high-tech in SV. Most end up doubling / tripling up in one-bedrooms just for work housing, their families are elsewhere, and they go home every two weeks +/-. These companies usually are excellent on the resume, but many people don't stay long. Up to you.
As a single Dad, I could never have taken that chance as my support is where I am at. It just is. If I didn't have a kid, easy choice, I'd go for it. But with a kid it's different because me working a ton doesn't help my kid live a better life.