Hey Elizabeth,
The biggest question I have is if you are willing to live in one of the units. As others have said, this is the best way to get started because you can get much better financing when the property is owner occupied. A lot of the owner occupy loans require you to live there for at least a year, so it's not forever.
If you choose not to owner occupy you'll need to put more money down (like 25% vs 3.5%), so just keep that in mind.
It also sounds like you may be stuck in analysis paralysis, or you are just looking for that perfect property. I've found that there is no such thing as a perfect property. There is always going to be something that you don't like.
My advice would be to find a mentor (the right investor-focused agent can be great at this), continue analyzing deals, run them by your mentor, and then make offers when a deal meets your buy criteria. Local investor meetups are also a great place to find a mentor and just talk to other investors in your market.
It can be pretty scary buying your first deal, but at some point you need to pull the trigger if investing is truly what you want to do. It took me over a year of learning and analyzing deals before I got my first multi-family, but I eventually did it and I'm very glad I did. The next deals came much easier as my confidence grew.
Best of luck!