Hey Eliot!
I have 2 house hacks in Houston and I also rent by the room. House hacking in those areas are definitely do-able. But you will be left to pay a little out of pocket every month. Also in my opinion I would not house hack a single family unless it’s a 4 bed 2 bath minimum. And at 350k in that area it will be tough… but again not impossible.
If you don’t mind being out of pocket some every month to live in the areas specified. If I was in your shoes. I would buy a new build house hack that if your not looking to get into Reno’s…
This is a scenario for someone wanting to house hack a single family with minimal work needed to building, and assuming you still want to live comfortable and have somewhat privacy in a single family, Buy 3 bed 3 bath newer build around 350k
Put 3-5% down conventional loan for first time home buyers (yes these are still out there and the fees are a lot less than using and FHA but it is limited to a single family home) 10.5k
Live in one of the bedrooms with wife, rent spare bedrooms for 800-900 (This is what I’m seeing people are willing to pay for a bedroom with private bath all day long)
Rough math
PITI= 2400
Gross rents from room=1800 (new builds =top rent you can even push it to 1000 a room but again this is on you)
Reserves= 15k (You only put 5% down save the rest and use that as your reserves you’re buying a new build so it’ll come with some sweet warranties use that first)
Cashflow= -600
You mentioned you have a wife so assuming you guys split it down the middle essentially you will be paying $300 each to live in the areas mentioned above. Not bad at all. 2-3 years down the line if you no longer have to live in the home and it won’t cash flow as a long term, try Airbnb, rent out master for 900-1k, or sell and capture any equity/ gain.
My 2 house hacks I approached it in a similar way but I bought fixers and I cashflow around 900-1000 a month net after moving out! Avg rent per bedroom being 700. If you are looking and investing for cashflow as @Cody L. try nearby areas with lower prices such as 3rd ward, Eado/East End, Fifth Ward near east river project, Medical center south(77051). Shoot me a message if you have any questions.