Quote from @Minna Reid:
Are you trying to sell this FSBO? I don't see how you are anticipating less than $15k closing costs on a sale this size? And by the way your balance increases with non payment.
Not much to worry about if you are only 30 days behind, but unless you do move this quick you will in fact be looking at a short sale.
Good news is they are obviously open to that. I wouldn't worry about the 5/29 date - they will certainly make the option of short sale available to you again anytime between now and the foreclosure sale...which could be many months or even years away.
Thanks for the info. I have two quotes for closing costs, one at $2k and the other at $2,500.
I should also mention that, if I get a job soon, I can easily make up the payment(s) in arears at my earning level, so it very unlikely that this will end up as a short sale. I was just trying to understand why my mortgage company proposed a short sale from the very beginning instead of just giving me a couple of months breathing room to find a new job.