Hi Shayan--Here is the thing...when flipping for me, the class of neighborhood, location of property in that neighborhood, and amount of renovations really matters. I'm in Chicago burbs. I only flip in A class hoods--low crime, great schools, desireable properties. I do not buy the bi-level house on a busy street facing a factory! I design the homes and build my budget with that in mind. My ARVs are also reflective of those factors. If you have not yet, try building your financial model with this in mind.
Play with your numbers and see what a deal that works for you looks like. Worry less about the "rules" and the financing right now, and try running models that meet YOUR financial goal. It is ok to make $30K on a deal--just watch your risk. Have an exit strategy on the property--I sometimes do not because of the price of the project--but it pays to consider this for sure. Do the homework on a DSCR option as part of your original analysis.
Thats the other thing--yes you may carry more in costs, but your risk profile on an A class hood is much lower. If you already do this, than like me, it is a lot of screening properties (40-65 per month at about 3-4 offers from that) and patience.
Watch the ARVs right now as a lot of us are in a declining market--do not rely on anyone else but yourself to really provide the ARV. If you can't see the ARVs--took me a year to really see--do more homework and watch the area you want to be in very closely. Track other flips in that area if there are any. My biggest two cents is no one should flip unless they are the best at estimating ARV in their room--better than the appraiser, agent, lender--when that happens, your deals will fall into line. Best of luck!!!