@Amanda Black, a lot of people hate on the idea of having an expensive primary residence especially here in CA. But as a lot of others have mentioned there are always two sides to every coin.
When you buy in state you can put low money down vs having to spend more on a traditional investment out of state. In addition, CA historically has appreciated very rapidly.
I live in southern CA and bought my first house out of state for $260k, its been three years and it is now worth roughly 420k. Last year i bought a primary residence here in CA for $770k people thought it was silly. The house a year later is comping around 930k, meaning ive made the same amount in appreciation in a third of the time. Yes my payment is high on a monthly basis but in two years I can sell the primary residence and take up to 500k tax free, buy another california home and take the additional capital ive made and invest in more out of state properties.
CA can kill your scaling process if you have a high mortgage payment and your equity is stuck in the house, if you can be creative however and either sell, or rent out the condo after a year the california equity gains can actually accelerate your growth.