@Dyryl Burnett
Keep your head up! Here is my advice, I hope it helps.
1. Don't expect a steady, 40 hr week type job in real estate. If you really want to succeed in investing on your own you will need to put in the long hours and understand that money may not come at first. But if you put in the necessary time and effort I guarantee you will see significant returns.
2. It is important to have money in the bank in case of an emergency but also extremely important to get that debt down asap, as it sounds like it may be standing in the way of what you want to do (see #4 on how to get it down).
3. Although you may not be in a position to buy and hold the multiplex at the moment, remember there are other ways to apply the knowledge you have acquired and interest in the industry than just buying and holding. Perhaps try to find a partner who has the money, but lacks the time and experience to do the deals himself. Whatever you can do to add value and credibility to your name (even if it wasn't all your cash) will pay big dividends. Put your name and your goals out there, you could have a buddy or relative, etc who wants to invest in this but had no idea you are interested simply because they had never heard it from you.
4.Rather than buy and hold on the first property I would suggest trying to assign contracts to other investors, that way you don't tie up all of your capital in one deal and wait for it to cashflow positively. With a few hefty assignment fees you should be able to pay down some of your debt, not only easing your tensions but making you a more attractive borrower in the eyes of the bank.
Best of luck! Feel free to message me with any questions.