@Annette Homewood,
I sympathize completely with your predicament. It really sounds like you've got stressful assets and aren't clear about which step to take next without making a mistake.
You've also clearly done some homework already on DSTs, which is more than a lot of investors do (unfortunately).
Let me take a whack at some of your "don't know" issues:
Will there by surprise fees? Possibly. Not all DST sponsors or brokers are comfortable breaking down their fees in clear, simple, direct language. DST fees include (1) typical escrow/title/appraisal/legal fees (as with any real estate transaction), (2) capitalized reserve fees that are typically paid upfront since DSTs can't use capital calls or borrow new money, so there are fees that help pay for the DSTs to raise all of the money it needs at the beginning, (3) selling commissions especially if you're using a DST broker, and (4) offering expenses for purposes of running the DST marketing and legal costs. Ask any DST provider/broker to list out these fees and how they impact your return.
Extra fees to cut into your equity? Over the life of a DST, sponsors will take asset management fees and they'll also often take out disposition fees upon sale that might not be subordinate to your investment...which will have the practical impact of cutting into your return on equity. However, unlike a normal property that you manage, all of the costs and fees are "baked in"...you'll never come out of pocket to pay anything with a DST after you've invested.
What else you should look out for? Yes, but I think the most important is to broaden your potential search a little. DSTs are useful in some circumstances and are extremely well advertised, but they aren't the only passive investment game in town for you if you're looking to 1031 exchange out of your headache properties. There are other NNN options, although there aren't any options that are going to come with mutual fund-level low fees. This is real estate after all.
Some alternatives to DSTs:
- Any property you buy could hypothetically become a triple net lease property.
- A NNN tenants-in-common (TIC) property, which is in many was the structural predecessor to DSTs. There are meaningful differences, but they're still passive and often a good route if you're boxed out of accredited investor-only assets.
- Oil/gas or other mineral rights, which will provide a passive income stream and are 1031 eligible
- There are other syndications out there that aren't structured as a DST, but a lot of them are going to have accredited investor requirements.
Let me know if you have other questions here. I think right now you're on the right path in terms of trying to evaluate the landscape for potential exits. Be alert -- and I'm sure you already are -- that everyone tied to a company (myself included) is going to be incentivized to give you advice that leads to their service or product. Ask around.