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All Forum Posts by: Sandra Brothers

Sandra Brothers has started 2 posts and replied 16 times.

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

@Ed O. I did answer peoples questions, but nobody was actually reading those comments. I’ve also been getting messages and I’ve been answering everybody’s questions in there. I’ve been studying this business along with my partner for over a decade, the fact that my company just opened its doors has nothing to do with that and I feel like I’m being shamed because of it even though everyone has to start out somewhere. People are making fun of me asking for an NDA when they want more information than I can give them on a first basis even though people in this group are the ones telling me to do that because I have been being screwed over. I never had a problem with sharing some of the details of the deals that are being given to me, my post was basically just seeing if anyone would be interested in partnering to begin with. The 20/80 thing people in this group also told me to do. Because I’m doing what I’m told by professionals in this business, I am being hacked apart. Me explaining it over and over and over and over again and comments and messages doesn’t even fix the fact that people keep tearing me apart regardless of how many times I answer everyone’s questions. It’s awful. I wake up every morning to the same posted questions on my post over and over and over in the same comments, basically degrading me and my business  and it’s not right considering I didn’t even do anything wrong. I’m just gonna get off of this site because I’m actually finding people to work with me off of the site. I don’t understand why people are so full of themselves here. I don’t like to deal with people like that so I’m out.

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

@Ryan Arth I was just trying to see if anyone would be interested in the first place. I have four different deals that have been sent to me that I can’t take on because I don’t have sponsorship right now. I thought I could partner with someone on here maybe. All of the information I’ve got are from this website and other gurus so if I said anything wrong, it’s them. Also, someone commented saying that I should get an NDA going if I’m going to wholesale. Then in the next breath, I have someone tearing me down and making fun of me for things like me saying that I need an NDA. Being Made fun of his not cool. I can’t sit on here all day long responding to comments so he just started insinuating things about me that we’re not true and putting out false information about me because I wasn’t responding within a two minute span. That’s not cool. That’s not professional either. of course I would’ve put the basic information there is someone was actually interested in possibly partnering depending on where it’s at and all that stuff. so yes, I was attacked. I was put down. I was torn apart. I was lied about. when I did explain things, nobody listened and still put me down. I’m gonna look for partners elsewhere. I have two going now anyway like I said in a comment beforehand. I’m not gonna deal with pompous people when I have done nothing wrong to deserve it. 

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

You literally said in a comment that I have zero experience so I listed my experience to a point, not even mention the five years that I’ve studied it and the mentor classes I’ve taken, also mentioning that I do know how to underwrite because someone actually pointed out that I’m probably don’t even do that. You’re acting like I’m wrong. Please stop bullying and harassing me. Have a nice life.

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

Also, the 20/80 partnering idea is what I got from someone else that told me that that’s what I should offer, one of you gurus on here said that actually.  But as it shows, it seems that some of you are extremely full of yourselves, really bad bullies, you offer zero health and instead act like we’re trying to screw you over when all I’m trying to do is not be screwed over by you people. The ones that have offered advice thank you. Also asking, and assuming that I am somehow screwing people over by wholesaling, it’s not my fault you don’t know how it works. The offer I presented is one way to offer it, but it can also be negotiated. I’m just trying to find a sponsor.  it shouldn’t be that hard, but it seems like most of you are stuck on to the point where you bully and harass everybody else that’s just trying to get a little help starting the business.

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

To the point where it’s bullying at this point for no reason. I’m being bullied because I am asking for a partner to sponsor us while we do our first ever deal because the only way we can do a first deal and get alone, is why we need a sponsor………… it’s not rocket science. Obviously we do everything including all of the underwriting and we’re very good at it and we’ve been trained in it. You are supposed to know what you’re doing actually giving me tips. You’re just sitting around bowling people all day.  have fun with that. Also, it’s not my fault that you don’t know the basic laws around all of this.  I’m not allowed to post details publicly about any of these deals. If you want to know about a deal, you’re supposed to contact me privately like a normal person. Everybody knows that that does this business but you apparently. Have fun, bowling people and see how far that really takes you. 

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

It seems someone is just assuming we have 0 training, and 0 know how to the point 

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

I have deals not just from there, from many places and like I said in my first post, this is our first deal. Therefore, we need a sponsor hence why I’m asking for a sponsor and giving them the better end of the deals. i’m not gonna post details of a deal on here without an NDA and a contract because I learned my lesson. It’s no big deal if you don’t wanna work with me, I have two people that are working with me anyway right now. I’m just seeing if there’s more people that want in. It’s not a big deal.  if you’re not interested, you’re not interested. 

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

Also, you say “sponsor” as of its a bad thing. Its not. Most people start out having to do that. Its not nice to shame them. Its not like people are “sponsoring” for free, they are getting cash out of it so if youre not interested, thats fine! 

Post: Looking for a partner

Sandra BrothersPosted
  • Posts 16
  • Votes 6

I said that getting deals is going great, which it is. We are just starting, which means we cannot get alone unless we have a sponsor. A lot of people start out that way, unless they already have millions to begin with.