@Andrew Lekowski....WOW!
Thank you for sharing your "ALL TOO COMMON" experience. We have all been there. I know many will gain great knowledge from your heartfelt post.
Appliances:
I can relate with the appliance acquisition process. The time that it takes for you personally to go pick up and bring back, carry it up the stairs (yourself or with the help of a friend) to find out that the fridge is too big to fit through the front door, then you have to remove parts in order for it to fit is not cost effective at all. Let alone you think you are getting a bargain because you are paying $100-$300 cheaper than a brand new one.
- recommendation BUY NEW! That is the consensus I have gone with. You get a warranty from a credible company, that even through COVID, will remain open because they are considered an essential business. Plus you get free or near free delivery, with installation and removal of old appliances. Therefore, you come out way cheaper than the route you (and I ) have gone through.
Self management:
I too was faced with an eviction process within the first few months of my acquisition of a small MF property. What I found is that my notices with my company header stating you have a 7 day notice...doesn't have any impact what-so-ever. It is merely a piece of paper. However it is a paper that you need to have to support the actual process. But I bring it up because I too wrote that notice, then accepted a partial late payment, then had to provide another notice and give another 7 days the following month, due to me accepting monies.
- lesson learn, send notice, once time has expired, seek counsel (Sarah Taggart). After that....DONE DEAL...in a timely and efficient manner.
I am curious if you have taken the time to add up the costs and your time (standard hourly rate) to see how it compares to having a professional company manage your property(ies). Cause in the end, it seems like my time is very valuable to spend on PM when I also am responsible for the Strategic Narrative of my company, the analyzing and acquisition of properties, network building etc. I rather factor in the cost to have quality PM for my properties.
Glad to read that you have gone through this, and got through this, so you can learn and grow and share your experiences with others so we all can ensure we don't have to experience similar in the future.
All the best!