Myles,
I think your best corse of action is to fast track your RE license and get it done as soon as possible, and either do that on weekends/time when you're not doing your security work or just make the lead into an industry that will at least get you closer or open a few more doors. Something that comes to mind is any bank. Even if it doesn't directly introduce you to someone in REI it will almost certainly give you a nice perspective on the world of finance, which has its place in REI. But there are many things out there that could potentially give you insight. Mortgage companies was a great idea, property management firms, apartment complexes, even hotels. All these ideas have some relation to real estate. You have the first step down of wanting it but without taking that first leap into something new you're relying on luck of someone walking into your life and telling you what to do/ where to go. Almost all rewards have a risk associated with them and being that you're so young you have a lot of time to build yourself back up if you fail initally