I will answer your question in a moment.
What helped me? Before I started out a decade ago, I tended toward books and information. While it was helpful, it was nowhere near as helpful as being exposed to people actually doing what I wanted to be doing. I am nearly positive no course could have ever taken me as far as partners and mentors.
I highly recommend networking and partnering. Find someone who is doing what you want to do at a higher level than you and make them a part of your life. This is not an obvious thing for a beginner to figure out, but it is worth starting sooner than later as it takes time.
Go to local real estate presentations / events / awards (maybe you have a local annual NAIOP awards or a BISNOW breakfast). Breakfast events are common in my area. Try searching for events by BISNOW, NAIOP, ULI, etc. They exist. Usually a ticket price around $100 for those ones.
Hand out business cards, shake hands, kiss babies. SELL YOURSELF without being dishonest. If you have no real estate experience to sell, sell your ambition and prior successes in other fields.
Practice your personal elevator pitch in the mirror out loud until you feel comfortable saying it. You might feel silly at first but it makes it much easier to get through when you are talking to a real human being. Your voice and posture will be calmer and you will think more clearly. People are less likely to dismiss you this way.
Regarding programs, a half-answer. I am always suspicious of these education programs. They give me that 'get rich quick' feel.
If their program is effective, why are they selling the program instead of working it? I would want that question answered before purchasing anything. It is a question of opportunity cost. It takes time and effort to create and sell these programs. This is time and effort they could be putting toward the program they are selling. That suggests that they are either not giving up a lot suggesting their program is not as effective as they might suggest or that it is far more lucrative and/or stable to sell the program.
The two most likely scenarios:
1) They are driven by non-monetary factors (e.g., mission-driven: want to make the world a better place OR lifestyle: prefer the work of selling a program to the work of executing it) and they are willing to stomach any difference in income, OR
2) They are making more money selling the program to you than they are working it for themselves. This does not necessarily invalidate their program, but it is a funny look.
Just my $0.02. Good luck.