Lots of responses -- thank you all so much, I'll look to reply to everyone :-)
@Chris G. Indeed, the tenant was billed for <40% of the quoted "hired help" cost, and all of the "do it myself" labor charges were quoted to the tenant in advance. It's in our lease that they will be billed for a carpet cleaning upon move-out; I could reduce or remove this fee and chalk it up to wear and tear, but they were expecting this charge. Appreciate your response!
@Jordan Moorhead The tenant emailed earlier today saying they have contacted an attorney, which could of course be a bluff...at this time I have not heard from said attorney -- I suppose we'll just hold off and see what happens, as you advise! Thank you for the reassurance.
@Gary L Wallman Definitely appreciate your breakdown on the paint depreciation, that's a great way to do it. I estimate the previous paint was ~2 years old at most, but I have no way of proving that. I intend to reduce the cleaning charges we passed on -- fortunately the tenants in question spared me from the dirty diapers, to their credit. Thank you much!
@Jeff Copeland Damages + legal fees is very much a consideration, and obviously something we want to avoid. Fortunately I live in WA, which is friendlier to landlords than OR, but your point still stands. Thank you for your feedback and the video link, this was all very helpful!
@Tim Miller We will definitely make some changes with future tenants, lessons are being learned! All labor costs were clearly quoted prior to move-out, but I lacked the foresight of getting a signed copy. I'm doing my best to document everything, but hindsight is 20-20 -- I've missed some things along the way, we'll do as you suggest moving forward. Thank you!
@Bud Gaffney Fingers crossed they do! Appreciate the vote of confidence.
@Stephen Dispensa I moved in ~9 months ago, and unfortunately the previous owner was unable to provide paint samples (I asked). We intended to repaint sometime soon, just not right away. The existing paint was still in good condition, prior to the alterations. We have those color swatches now, lesson learned! Appreciate your response.
@Bruce Woodruff Are you still unable to charge for personal labor, when it is quoted to the tenant in advance? There seems to be some disagreement on this throughout the forum...I definitely did not make up numbers, I used the "Itemized List of Common Deposit Deductions" that is provided in Brandon and Heather Turner's book "The Book on Managing Rental Properties." Appreciate any clarification you can provide, thanks again!
@Scott Mac "I would not have charged them for the nail dot holes, but I would have for this...It looks like they put the unit into a needs paint category before re-rent....Their attempt at painting has resulted in more (expensive) damage to the unit." -- 100% my opinion, thank you for contributing!
Thank you all again for your time and help, I really appreciate everyone's feedback -- hope everyone's having a nice Thursday!