@Peice Livingston
Hello! I read your post and I'm sorry to hear that you had some hurdles with your real estate journey. If you are still continuing forward despite those negatives, then that's amazing! You've experienced first hand and know now what to avoid from letting that happen again in the future.
Although I am aware that things could go wrong in this real estate journey, worrying about what could go wrong isn't going to serve me nor stop me from moving forward. I am willing to learn the process and do my due diligence; and even if I do encounter any misfortunes along the way, I believe I'll be able to figure something out when that time comes. Currently taking things slow, and while I'm still in the initial steps for saving up, I can continue to research, form good networks (who in turn will lead me to good referrals for contractors and lenders), scope out markets, and speak to a few lenders along the way to find which ones are compatible with my interests. I know this process isn't going to happen overnight and am willing to be patient with it.
And to your question regarding a W2 job, I don't think it is my place to give you advice since I don't know your full situation. If I was in that type of situation however, I would probably need to find a way to obtain a W2 job that can provide an income to help fund my real estate investing but I would need to get creative with the types of jobs and know that these jobs are a temporary discomfort (food service jobs, customer service, in home-supportive services for developmentally disabled). I'm not sure what barriers are preventing you from getting a W2 job, but If getting one is what you are aiming to do, I would probably need to figure out how to tackle those barriers.
I think if you ask that question in the forums, I'm sure there are others on BP who are more familiar with that type of situation who can give more insight to your concerns. Hope this helped :)