Again, I shouldn't have to put up with Bill making assumptions about my standard of living. For him to suggest I get a second job or insinuating that I can't afford to drive was ill-informed. Or telling me the chances of getting a wholesale deal as 0.1% and that sounds tacky, even though that may be true. The fact is none of you know me very well and all of you are making assumption that I cannot take feedback well.
There is a difference between getting constructive input on the nuances of looking for deals, whatever it takes to wholesale versus making speculative comments about my chances of making it in wholesaling, or how 'poor' I come across and needing 2nd job. That's insinuating that I have poor fiscal discipline, not being able to budget or manage finances responsibly, which is not the case here - especially when I have budgeted smart for over a decade in anticipation of pondering a career change such as this one.
You are not talking to an immature like you think you know here. If I was immature I would have not ventured out to BP threads such as this and absorb. I am sure Bill has his own reputation for what he is done. I don't doubt he's successful with this realm, but no one is immune from making off color assumptions such as 'my standard of living being poor'. At any rate, there is a lot to learn about wholesaling. That's why I'm spending time reading the blogs, articles and multiple sources, going out to the county tax assessors office - researching about properties on foreclosure, etc. etc....
The point is not rely on one source (the mentor you guys are throwing mud at me about), but absorb from several peers in this real estate realm. That's why we have here in Denver reputable real estate clubs (through meetups) and talking to multiple investors who are already savvy about what it takes to survive the Denver market and surrounding areas. Speaking of which I'm attending my 2nd monthly meeting tonight. You can search on bing "DAREI events" (Denver Association of real estate investors).
and no, the mentor did not tell me to simply focus on properties on the MLS with the help of real estate agents. Of course there are better possibilities finding properties outside of the MLS. Overall, I realize there is so much to learn for the next 12 months minimum and that wholesaling is a cut throat competition - especially on MLS offers, based on my 1st offers made - 70% of ARV, etc.. I am here to digest input for the next year or more, not going anywhere.