It's hard to flip your first house. If there was an easy way to get >20% on your cash in 3-6 months, everyone would do it. So it's going to be hard. Especially the first one. How do I know? Because I'm on the wrong side of first.
It's not that I mind hard. It's the kind of hard, the specific breed of hard, that makes it so hard.
I'm going to switch to difficult instead of hard, because typing hard so much feels weird.
What's difficult is that it's chaos and lies, chaos and lies, chaos and misinformation, chaos and truth, order and lies, and misinformation, and more chaos. And luck. It's basically salmon swimming up stream. And I guess it gets easier, but at the beginning I can tell you it sucks. Digging ditches 18 hours a day would be more pleasant. Because at least there are simple rules, laws of physics. The shovel doesn't shape-shift to another size mid scoop. The dirt doesn't change its weight. It's all predictable effort, predictable results.
Your first house flip, not so much.
After grinding for a few weeks I think this is the thing: at the beginning, all you get are sucker prices. You waste time modeling sucker deals, and walking sucker properties with sucker GCs. You get comps from sucker agents and take advice from sucker advice givers.
Finally, you realize that numbers don't lie. There are such things as accurate comps, accurate rehab costs, accurate carrying costs, accurate closing costs. You soon realize that you can't do a flip with a full commission broker taking 6%. Maybe a flat fee deal at most. You can't use a GC that works with insured union contractors. Maybe some uninsured guys, usually ones that don't speak English. You can't pay what the seller of a distressed investment property is asking. Maybe 80% of ask is doable if you know your stuff w/r/t rehab and reselling, and if the comps are spot-on accurate.
You can't get 80% ask unless you win at musical chairs. It means you have to happen along and run the numbers ACCURATELY AND QUICKLY at the exact moment that a seller is done messing around and has finally, at long last become REALISTIC about things and wants out.
To happen along at that right moment it SEEMS like you need to kiss a lot of frogs and get to know a lot of brokers, and make those brokers think that you have a lot of money and are quick and dead serious as an investor. But convincing them (or yourself) of that when you've never done a deal before, well, that's hard.
But whining about it ain't gonna do a darn bit of good.