Melanie, my biggest failure is as follows, and it hurts to admit. LOL At the time I had been GC building homes and add-a-levels in my town for 20 years. Put a nest egg together had about 120 thousand or so. Wife and I decided to buy a house to flip, what could go wrong? I have all the trades, employees, vendor discounts, its a win-win. SURE. I bought the house in December of 06 for $510,000 put $25,000 cash down. The mortgage was I think around 4000 a month with taxes. Went through permitting started renovations in February '07, can you guess where this is going? Put about $40,000 cash into reno. went back on the market mid-summer of '07. Got an offer of $600,000 went back at 618. back and forth back and forth and we stuck at 610,000. they walked. So it sat 4000 a month, 4000 a month. so on and son and welcome the crash of 07 08. tho make a long story short. It wound up a short sale, I lost 125,000 dollars. And learned so many lessons. My mom worked in real estate she was an office admin with no license, but always told me to take the first offer it is usually your best. OOOPS she was so right. so here were are 12 years later and a bit wiser and I am jumping in again with both feet. Hopefully with better results. This is off the top of my head some 12 years later, so some numbers might not be perfect but you get the gist.