@Marcus Auerbach I agree with you that I think rent increase is an important part of things and I guess I'm being a little impatient. Currently with coronavirus the PM and I have decided it's fine to not increase rent (I'm curious is anyone else doing this? I think it makes sense not to hit the tenants with a rent increase in the middle of the worst economic hit since the GFC but maybe I'm crazy?) and I'm hopeful we can in 2022 (after 1.5 yr. lease is up).
To the millennial demand I agree on that point too, I think a lot of people are worried about there being some sort of housing crash but right now I see 1) millennials are buying their first homes driving up demand and this will continue for years, 2) people are moving out of urban areas (I see this as temporary for the majority of people but there will definitely be a large portion that never move back), 3) interest rates are at historic lows, and 4) inflation is around the corner (maybe not this year, but 2022-2023 I could see it as the government needs to inflate away its debt).
@Brian Garlington thanks for the advice as well, I did a similar thing working with Marcus (who is great by the way) in Milwaukee and I think it's working out, it just seems like there were a lot (as in, I don't think anything in the first year is cashflowing) of random expenses that added up (lawn/yard maintenance, leaks, water bill being $200 a month basically 2X more than expected, etc.).
Thanks @James Wise too I've seen a lot of your posts and that's what got me looking at Cleveland (the map you made describing the different neighborhoods was really helpful too).
I think I was sort of going crazy due to spending a lot of time trying to research things and getting nowhere along with the fact that my 5 month old son while freaking adorable is not sleeping more than 2 hours at night now. Anyway thanks everyone for your responses, I love Bigger Pockets for exactly that, and I'll keep positive. The fact that I even complain about anything including inventory is such a "first world problem" type of situation when there are a lot of people really struggling right now. Thanks again!