@Pete Storseth
I had put $3200 down on a $130k house. It requires 3.5%. If you do the math, you'll see that's a lot less than 3.5%. Your problem is in your research. I have Chase and Capital One and no, they don't do 203k loans. I digged and found the FHA 203k website (hud.gov). Google something along the lines of "FHA 203k lenders in my area." Along with a bunch of advertisements, that website should pull up in the punch. Type in your specifics to get a list of lenders. Everything I do is online. I didnt meet my lender until it was the day of the closing. Gone are the days you meet with people face to face before a deal.
I don't know too much about house hacking. You need to find a way to get in the door. It's not going to happen with you meeting with bankers. Also everyone says that hard money lenders want about 25% down. I did research that some will take as little as 10% down.
You don't necessarily have to do the 203k loan, as I know it will be a headache. You can get a regular FHA loan. It's only 3.5 % down. I have heard of the down payment assistance programs. I tried to get that, but didn't qualify at the time the program had funds available in my area. I live in New Orleans, and they only get funding like every 4 years or so. Once it becomes available, the funds are gone within 3 months from so many qualified applicants. I didn't qualify because my debt to income was over 33% at the time.