@Stacey Adams
Ah a finance question- I know more about finance than real estate so-
first- there are many factors- generally I would say don't cash in/withdraw. There are some caveats to that statement-see the bottom. The second (first time home buyer) may be viable if you or your spouse can be considered a first time home buyer. Generally I would say the withdrawal penalty is too high otherwise- there are alot of smart people and interesting topics on this site that talk about ways to get RE deals done with little or no $$. I'd take a serious look at those before taking the income tax hit and the extra 10% penalty for early withdrawal. Also- stop investing in the retirement accounts if you'd rather invest in real estate or real assets so you don't have to worry about it.
(Side note if it's a Roth 401k/Roth IRA you can withdraw contributions tax free after a 5 year holding period)
See the two below (
http://money.usnews.com/money/retirement/articles/...)
Turn age 59 1/2. Once you turn age 59 1/2, you can withdraw any amount from your IRA without having to pay the 10 percent penalty. But regular income tax will still be due on each withdrawal. IRA distributions are not required until after age 70 1/2.
A first home purchase. You can take a penalty-free IRA distribution of up to $10,000 ($20,000 for couples) to buy, build or rebuild your first home or the first home of you or your spouse's child, grandchild or parent. For the purposes of avoiding the IRA early withdrawal penalty, the IRS considers you to be a first-time homeowner if you or your spouse did not own a home during the two-year period leading up to the home sale. If the purchase or construction of your home is canceled or delayed, put the money back in your IRA within 120 days of the distribution to avoid the penalty.