Quote from @Theresa Harris:
Why not look for a duplex-you can live in half, rent out the other half? How much can you borrow for a mortgage? Where is your extended family? What do you like to do (eg want to be in the big city, smaller town in the mountains)? Are you planning on moving to the new home in a year or only living there for a year?
Definitely would want something like a duplex — really any setup that doesn't involve sharing rooms. I'm not sure what we can borrow for a mortgage. We're debt free and have maybe $115,000 gross annual income, though it can vary a bit as it's from a small business, and it's looking like it will keep going up year after year.
We do love big cities, but we'd also like to have a yard for the kids. We'd be willing to give up one or the other, though.
Extended family is in SoCal, Japan, South Korea, and New Zealand, so that's not really a deciding factor.
We're planning on moving about a year from now. I'm guessing we'd live in the potential house hack for 1 to 2 years.