@Zachary Giles
My wife and I were in a similar scenario not too long ago. We managed to fall into 40k worth of credit card debt in about 4 years. When everything stopped spiraling down hill and we got a hold of it we couldn’t believe how far we had fallen. It was absolutely sickening and we couldn’t believe it. We both resented ourselves for being so irresponsible however we were strong enough to pick each other up. We made the decision together that we were going to pay every cent of it off as soon as possible. We made a solid plan and stuck to it. Most of this was possible because I made a career change that was bonus oriented and really focused on how to master sales.
1) We balance transferred 80% of it to interest free cards for the next 12 months with a very low fee
2) We created a budget that was realistic and allowed us to still have fun as we are very social people
3) I worked every hour possible without sacrificing our time together
4) No money was to go into savings until everything was paid.
With our plan we were able to pay off all of our debt in about 10 months while still maintaining a life style that we enjoyed. After paying everything off it was a huge achievement and really brought us closer. It also removed a lot of financial stress and personal doubt.
Now that all of our debt is paid off my wife has opened her own business and has it positively cash flowing in just 5 months. My plan was to buy my first property in March, but due to COVID and a serious back injury I am running rather late on my deadline. This may have been a blessing in disguise as I have been able to really make my investment plan much more intricate. I am definitely itching to get started but my inability to go see listings is a huge road block.
At the end of the day I don’t know if financial gurus would praise me or throw me under the bus, but at the end of the day I would do it the exact same way again due to personal gains.
When it was all said and done it strengthened our marriage and taught us financial responsibility/discipline the hard way.
Not sure if this helps at all but I hope it helps you or someone else.