@John Dombrowski - Yes, that's on the pro list. We don't have much of a savings yet because we just finished paying off some credit card bills. That's where the wiggle room in our paychecks comes from. We could wait a year or so to save up money and purchase or we could get started now with a 401k loan. This way, we'll be paying ourselves back. We have a little credit card debt left, but it's manageable now with a debt usage of less than 35%.
@Michael Seeker - Yes, we plan to get a conventional loan. Interest rates are low right now. We owned a house about 7 years ago that we used a 401k loan to get & they didn't take the loan payment into account when we got that (and neither did we). It turned out to be a nightmare. Without going into too much detail, we did a short sale on that house. We don't want to make the same mistakes again so we're being a lot more cautious now that our credit and income is better than it was then. We anticipate that we will qualify for around a $600K loan, but we only plan on using $350K - $400K. Thanks for that link. I think we fall into the "good cash flow and minimal non-401(k) savings" category.
@Nathan Waters - Thanks. That is a very good bullet list to follow & those are some of the things I learned the hard way. On point number 2, that is not always the case. I had a 401k loan at an old company & they allowed me to leave it at the same company and continue to make the payments after leaving the company. I know that's rare. It was a small company & I did some consulting work with them after I left, but it is a possibility. I just had to ask for it. I'm not counting on that this time. I just wanted to throw that out there.
@Tyler Mullen - What do you mean by "protected"? Do you mean from creditors or taxes?