Quote from @Jackson Pudlo:
I'm a first-time homebuyer looking to start my real estate investing journey and would appreciate some advice. For context, I'm 25 and planning to move in with my soon-to-be fiancée. We want to purchase a property to begin building our rental portfolio but are unsure of the best approach.
We live in Sonoma County, California, and I work in Healdsburg. Together, we have over $200K (mostly in stock market investments), and our parents may help with the down payment. I've read BiggerPockets' Real Estate Investing book and am particularly interested in the house hacking strategy, as I'd like to move out of my current living situation.
Our main dilemma is choosing between a single-family home (renting out one room to a close friend) or a multifamily property like a duplex or triplex. Meeting a 20% down payment to avoid PMI seems manageable, although would take a big chunk of my liquid net worth, and I prefer this route over using an FHA loan. My biggest concern is managing additional units and tenants. We have no experience managing tenants but have both been renting for a few years now, which has given us some perspective on being good landlords. I work 11-12 hour shifts, five days a week, in a demanding role, leaving me with little free time. My partner works full-time but has a less stressful and more flexible schedule. She has expressed strong interest in managing the property and is very organized, which complements my more scattered approach to things. I'd rely on her to handle much of the day-to-day management.
Given this, we're leaning toward a single-family home where we can comfortably rent a room to someone we trust. However, I'm drawn to the long-term benefits of multifamily properties. The increased cash flow and the ability to pay down the loan more quickly are the biggest draws for me.
Am I underestimating the time commitment of managing a multifamily property? Should I wait until I can dedicate more energy to this? Or are the advantages too significant to pass up?
Ideally, this would be just one step in a larger plan to grow into multiple rental units over time. Any insights would be greatly appreciated!
First off, congrats on starting your real estate journey at 25! You’re in a great position with strong savings, a supportive partner, and a clear goal of building a rental portfolio.
Single-Family vs. Multifamily for House Hacking
Both approaches have merit, but given your long-term goal of owning multiple rental units, I’d strongly consider multifamily (duplex or triplex). Here’s why:
- Scalability & Cash Flow – A single-family with one roommate is a good intro to landlording, but a multifamily allows you to collect rent from multiple tenants, significantly offsetting your mortgage. This accelerates wealth-building and gets you accustomed to managing multiple units early.
- Risk Diversification – If your friend moves out of the single-family, you’re covering 100% of the mortgage. With a duplex/triplex, even if one tenant leaves, you still have income from the others.
- Time Commitment – Managing a duplex or triplex isn’t necessarily 2-3x the work of a single-family, especially if you screen tenants well and set clear expectations. Given that your fiancée is organized and interested in managing, this could be a great division of labor. If needed, you can always outsource maintenance tasks to local handymen or a part-time property manager.
- Financing Considerations – If you have the means to put 20% down, that's great for avoiding PMI. But don't completely dismiss an FHA or other low-down-payment options, especially if keeping more liquidity in your portfolio is valuable to you.
Is Now the Right Time?
Your biggest hesitation seems to be the time commitment. While multifamily does require more involvement than a single-family rental, it’s very manageable if you treat it like a business—good systems, good tenants, and a proactive approach to maintenance. If your partner is willing to take the lead, that’s a huge advantage.
Final Thoughts
If your long-term vision is to scale into multiple properties, starting with a small multifamily now will set you up for success much faster than a single-family. The learning curve will be real, but the rewards—cash flow, equity growth, and future flexibility—are worth it.
Would love to hear what properties you’re currently looking at! Also, we’re actively working on 12-24 unit developments in high-growth areas, so if you ever want to scale beyond house hacking, happy to connect.
Best of luck!
Mike