Ryan,
I agree with you that we're getting caught up in semantics. Here is how I would define these terms:
Mistake - an error or fault resulting from defective judgement or knowledge
Failure - committing a series of mistakes that leads to a major setback, such as losing money on a deal or being forced out of business (even temporarily)
Ryan, yes, I have certainly made mistakes. However, because I studied hard and learned from other successful landlords, I have not made any serious mistakes (like paying retail for property or failing to deal properly with tenants, which are the two main causes of failure by new landlords)
My argument is not that I am perfect - FAR FROM IT. I have not succeeded because I am a genius or a great entrepreneur. Quite the contrary, I have succeeded because I followed in the footsteps of those successful investors who have gone before. Real estate has been around forever, therefore there is nothing really "new" in this business. Every mistake has already been made and every path to success has already been paved. My job is simply to duplicate what they did right and avoid their mistakes.
The fact is that the majority of new real estate investors fail (are forced out of business) in a short period of time. That is also true of every other type of business. My point is that this is entirely preventable IF the newbies would simply do their homework and learn the business. It is totally unnecessary to make major mistakes (like paying retail for an investment property), yet this is one of the most common and most devastating mistakes and it leads to failure. We see these mistakes repeated over and over in posts on this forum, even though the information on doing it right is perfectly clear and absolutely free.
I have never lost money in any of my real estate companies. Why should I? This isn't brain surgery. It is a simple business. If you follow proper business principles and stay disciplined, there is not much excuse for losing money.
I have not gotten every deal that I looked at. It is certainly not a mistake to not get every deal. In fact, that is one of the secrets to success in this business - don't fall in love with any property. It's all about the numbers for me. If I can't buy a property at my price, I don't buy it.
I have been burned by contractors, sellers, and tenants. Again, not a mistake. I did the proper due dillegence on these people and NOTHING I could have done would have prevented these people from burning me or predicted that they would do so. However, none of these incidents has caused my rentals to be unprofitable because I use real world expense numbers and these incidents are a normal and completely routine part of the business.
I don't want to give the wrong impression that I don't think I've made mistakes. So, here's an example of one of the mistakes I made.
One of the first properties I bought was a SFH house in a blue collar neighborhood. The previous landlord knew nothing about the business and allowed it to become a crackhouse. It was almost completely destroyed. EVERY door and window were broken. There were holes in all the walls. It was a mess.
I bought the house CHEAP and rehabbed it. During the rehab, I developed pride in the property (STUPID) and over-rehabbed it (STUPID). We put hand stained crown molding; NEW appliances; and even a dishwasher in the house (EXTREMELY STUPID). This was a serious mistake, but fortunately I bought the property right and this didn't result in negative cash flow (although it certainly resulted in lower cash flow than I should get). This was a lesson that I didn't get from books or other investors, although I certainly should have. This incident was entirely preventable if I had only done a better job of studying or learning from others.
Mike