John, sorry if I was out of line by posting here as a NON investor.
I am 40 years old, and spent most of my life being a single mother of 5 children and struggled my way through college graduating at age 35 with honors.
3 of my 5 children have left the nest in the last 2 years, and I'm down to two at home; 9 and 13 years old. I've been with this man for over 3 years, who is 10 years older than I am.
My dream has always been to own my own home so that I can stop moving my children around every year, 2 years, etc. This dream is finally about to be realized, and I will do whatever it takes to make it happen, and make it a nice home for me and my kids. And my BF too, if he choses to stay.
Thanks again for the advice.
And for those asking me via private message about the FHA 203 program, I've decided this is not going to work for us. We can't throw away over $500 on an application fee, and a wing and a prayer that FHA inspectors wont come through and tack thousands of dollars on our budget to remove this paint, replace that shingle, and patch this hole. It wont work out.
Thanks again.