Hi Larry,
I feel for you, this is a hard time for everyone in the business.
Regarding their response, it does make sense. As a commercial investor who raises private funds; its very hard to let someone exit in a time like this as the investing market is often frozen in a time like this. The investor/developer has debt/equity obligations so they can’t just return investment capital assuming they executed on the deal.
In a smaller environment we’d do what we reasonably can to work with someone but you can’t let someone exit from the investment without a replacement investor. At times like this it can get turbulent with multiple cash Investors wanting to exit. You help where you can but at some point; assuming the investment is still viable, the GP has to focus on the investment and move forward for the sake of the investor group as a whole. It can be a vicious cycle constantly spending time trying to raise money to replace past investors, the project doesn’t get focused on... and that’s when people really start to lose money. The GPs fiduciary responsibility is to do the work and get the investors the best return possible assuming the investment is still viable. If not they should exit as best they can and return as much of your capital as possible. Assuming they’re also invested they are surely doing this calculation and trying to optimize the situation.
Hope it works out for you and they work with you as best they can. Just another perspective.
Take care,
Michael