Thanks for the tag @Rick Albert. @Marc Sinnott, I'm a CFP running my own RIA/firm here in LA. Wrote a few thoughts/recommendations below. I'm happy to have a conversation and point you in the right direction. I also linked to a couple useful websites at the bottom of this reply.
I highly recommend looking for a fee-only financial planner/advisor, as you mentioned. I don't see hourly offered as much as I do flat fees. Personally, I don't offer hourly advice. I hated paying an old CPA of mine an hourly rate. I ended up doing as much work as I could on my own because I didn't want to be nickeled and dimed every time I had a 5 minute conversation with him. Also, did it really take him 30 minutes to complete a task, or was it truly only 10 minutes? I'll never know...
A flat fee can mean that the advisor charges a flat fee per project or analysis, or that they charge a flat fee as an annual retainer. I used to offer project based work for a flat fee, but it's no longer time efficient for me. I prefer to have long-lasting ongoing relationships with clients.
Not all financial advisors require their clients to invest their money with them. For example, I charge clients an annual flat-fee paid quarterly or monthly, whichever they prefer. This covers all things financial planning. I offer investment management as a separate service and don't require clients to invest any money with me, although most clients do invest with me. I charge a separate fee for the investment management. For clients with large enough balances, I waive the annual flat-fee for the financial planning, essentially bundling both services.
With my clients in their 30s and 40s, a lot of our planning/advice revolves around cash flow & business planning, wealth accumulation, and creative financing. For instance, I set up a client with a securities-backed line of credit (SBLOC) against his investment portfolio in order to fund the rehab/renovations of his new property. An SBLOC works mostly the same as a HELOC, but you use your investments as collateral instead of the equity in your home.
It might be difficult to find an advisor to provide you with the level of detail/expertise you're looking for, but not necessarily impossible. You'll likely have to pay a premium depending how much detail or hands on help you want regarding private equity, LPs, alts, etc. I'm happy to have a conversation and point you in the right direction.
You can find other fee-only CFPs here:
XY Planning Network
NAPFA
FeeOnlyNetwork.com
Looking forward to connecting soon!
-Michael