Ebony, thanks for your extremely helpful response! I am meeting with my contractor friend tomorrow and I will have a list of questions for him to address the concerns you mentioned. I am sure I can find other contractors through my network to give quotes. You are right that I could be potentially overpaying or underpaying my friend and I won't know without other estimates. Regarding the designer, I would only expect her to help with paint colors, cabinets, counters, and simple bathroom designs. I would not try to move any plumbing in any initial flips until I have a better handle of how it works. Regarding financing, I am trying to find a way to leverage the equity in my house or my partner's house to get the money down, since I don't have cash on hand to invest. Would you recommend combining a bank loan and a hard money loan? Are there possible ways to get financing with little or no money down with great credit and two houses? Your point regarding the MLS is well taken; even the realtor I talked to told me that the best deals don't even make it onto there. Now I know that I am going to have to seek out wholesalers or do my own marketing to find deals.
Thanks for all your help!